July 2003

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Featured In This Issue of
the Winterline Journal :

Stories:
Memoir Mementos:
Steve Van Rooy tells us of "Things that Go BOOM!"

Our Reader's Write:
New section featuring our readers' comments, vignettes & articles.
2003 Issues:

March
- May

Recipes:
Frank Cornelius' "Mamma's Hot Dish"...and a delicious Kulfi (Indian Nutty Ice Cream)

Cultural Connections:
Stan and an Indian friend discuss Pakistan and India. We review the movie, "Bend it Like Beckham". And Sylvia Staub's poem, "Afternoon in Bengal".

Food Adventures:
Margaret Deefholts' humorous tribute to two temperamental, but accomplished, cooks from her childhood.

Reader Reviews of Farewell the Winterline:
More from our readers around the globe..

Tidbits & Snippets
Teeny tales, flashbacks & vignettes....worthy of a chuckle, a tear or a sigh


Newsletter Staff:
Editor: Cynthia Brush

Graphics: Bill Grey

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

CULTURAL CONNECTIONS:

Our vision for the Winterline Journal is to provide a forum for building community among those of us who were born, raised, or simply interested in India and Pakistan and neighboring lands. It is a way to reminisce, share our stories & love for these two countries and cultures with one another. Children don't tend to develop political sensibilities until puberty, unless the family environment has a strong political bias. My parents were teenagers when the Pakistan/Bangladesh regions were part of India, so they have no prejudices against either country.

At times though, we may touch on the sensitive issue of political and/or religious loyalties. The following email discussion between one of our FTW readers and my father Stan Brush is such a dialogue:

 

Bridging the Divide - India & Pakistan
from Stan Brush

My dear Stan,
...I would want that your love for India be not besmirched with your infatuation with Pak. After the success with Attenborough's Gandhi [film], Pakis wanted to have Jinnah [film] and the role model was most appropriately played by someone who was known for his Dracula [screen play] role. The result was disastrous. Jinnah's movie was banned [even] in Pak itself.

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S......,

Stan Brush

I sensed in your letter and either/or imperative, that one must either love India and hate Pakistan, or vice versa. Forgive me if I wrongly impute this feeling on your part. I have dear friends on both sides of the border and strong family ties in both countries. You know what my India roots are. The Pakistan roots were nourished by a decade of residence in Lahore in the 1950s and early 60s when I was on the faculty of Forman Christian College, one of the premier institutions of the old Lahore and the new, and the University of the Panjab where I lectured in American history in the M.A. program.

My daughters, Cynthia and Victoria, grew up there and have fond memories of wonderful times in the local and international communities of Lahore. As I say in the dedication of my book, "Farewell The Winterline" their Khargpur is Lahore!

I was there to witness the genuine excitement stirred up by Pandit Nehru when he visited Lahore to sign the Canal Waters Treaty. I was there when the Indian cricket team came for a three-day match and the border was opened to Indian visitors holding four-day permits... the first such event since [partition and] Independence. My students requested, and received, permission to go down to the Railway Station to see the trains come in. "Sir, we have never seen Sikhs!" Can you imagine, in the birth province of Guru Nanak.

The Indian visitors were treated as national guests. Bus drivers, taxi drivers, tongawalas, chaiwalas...no one took any money for their services. At the College a distinguished academic visitor from Amritsar addressed the assembled students in Panjabi and brought down the house. The first time any of them had heard Panjabi in a formal academic context.

That was then. This is now, post India-Pakistan wars, post the birth of Bangladesh and many unfortunate political developments that have left Pakistan at a loss.

My love is for persons, for friends and colleagues, not for political systems or nations or any particular organized religious institutions. I know that we can't exist in this world as state-less persons disconnected from society and the institutions that make life possible. And that some times circumstances force us to choose. But I refuse to internalize these identities as barriers to the wider human community.

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Dear Stanji,
...I fully agree with your arguments why you can love our western neighbour without offending us [Indian nationals]. But on second thought I find that it is only proper that you should write [a book] on your Pak experience. The ruins of Mohenjo-Daro, the KII, the port city of Karachi which became out of bounds for us will be revisited thru the pages of your book. I wish your endeavour all success.
Yours respectfully,
S......

Copyright 2003 Stanley E. Brush

Email Stan at sebab1@juno.com

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The Cultural Influences of the Indian sub-continent have enriched Art, Music, Poetry, Literature, Fashion & Furnishings for thousands of years...and since the past century, Movies. We'd love to continue that heritage and support individual artists, authors, designers, craftspeople, musicians, poets, & filmmakers, who embellish our spirits with their creativity and inspiration.

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MOVIE REVIEW:
Bend it Like Beckham

OUR TAKE:

picture of nora jones album cover
Jesminder gazes at her idol
Photo: Christine Parry, AP

Bill and I thoroughly enjoyed this lively, heart-warming, British film about a sweet teenage girl, Jess (Parminder Nagra), who has a passion and talent for soccer and idolizes David Beckham, the British soccer star after which the movie is titled.

Jess, in struggling to be true to herself and her future, is caught in a culture clash with her traditional Sikh Punjabi parents (Anupam Kher and Shaheen Khan) who feel daughters are only meant to grow up to be brides & wives...just as Jess's self-absorbed older sister Pinky (Archie Panjabi) plans to become.

This is the first English feature film role of Bollywood icon Anupam Kher, marvelous as a gentle, thoughtful father who sees the unfulfilled dreams of his youth finding expression in his youngest daughter's passion.

Movie director Chadha commented "...this film is my most autobiographical to date. Not only is the film set in Southall [and London] where I grew up, but the relationship between Jess and her father is very similar to my relationship with my dad. I made this film as a tribute to him."

Be sure not to miss the playful movie credits.

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QUICK CLIPS:
* "Has an energetic zeal that is hard for even the most jaded, seen-it-all audience member to resist for very long."-- Rob Thomas, CAPITAL TIMES -- Madison, WI

* "A smart, lively and altogether warmhearted dramatic comedy that blends tradition and modernity on screen as adroitly as teenage Jess does in her irresistibly complicated life."
-- Kenneth Turan, LOS ANGELES TIMES - Los Angeles, CA

* "Sure, [it] wallows in cliches ... but it does so with such a bright, energetic spirit that you forgive pretty much everything."
-- Sean Means, SALT LAKE TRIBUNE - Salt Lake City, UT

"While there's no denying that Beckham is plowing some pretty well-plowed fields, it still succeeds on its own good-natured merits, brimming with the joy of life and its colorful diversities -- along with the intoxicating joy of filmmaking."
-- Ken Hanke, MOUNTAIN XPRESS -- Asheville, NC

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And more...
Excerpts from Claudia Puig's review for USA TODAY:

4/7/2003 BEYOND WORDS

Parminder Nagra had never kicked a soccer ball before starring as a soccer-crazed teen in "Bend It Like Beckham".

But by the time the cast and crew went to Germany for a key competition in the film, "we literally had become a really solid team," says Nagra, a native of England, where soccer is called football. "We got so into it once that (director) Gurinder (Chadha) stormed across the pitch, shouting, Cut! Cut! Have you forgotten this is a movie?"

The comedy-drama "Bend It Like Beckham" has convinced audiences and the movie industry that 27-year-old Nagra is the real thing. American movie audiences can see Nagra in August in "Ella Enchanted", a modern-day Cinderella story, with Anne Hathaway and Cary Elwes. And Nagra was in Los Angeles recently meeting about other roles.

The rousing British film has made $50 million worldwide, $20 million of that in Great Britain. Now on 117 screens in the USA, it has made $2.6 million in four weeks, with a whopping $10,001 per screen average. It goes into more theaters April 18.

"Bend It Like Beckham" refers to British soccer star David Beckham's trademark ability to kick a ball and have it curve in an arc around the goalie. The title ...metaphorically represents the challenges women face in male-dominated areas, such as sports, [who are] often forced to bend the rules to achieve their goals.

"It stuns me how the film is doing and how people respond to it," Nagra says. "In London there was an article about all these girls bending it like Beckham, and in India there's this big wave of girls playing football. Wow! I can't believe a movie's done this!"

"I meet people who have seen (Beckham) 15 times. The character I played is almost becoming like a bit of a cult figure. People tell me, 'I want to be like Jess.' Knowing you're part of that is really exciting. If I can inspire someone to go in a positive way and pursue a dream, it can only be good.


POETS AMONG US

Poets -- observers of inner & outer landscapes -- paint picturesque phrases, assemble sharp or sweet sentiment mosaics, craft collages of odd, everyday & poignant moments.

Step into an arresting terrain. Savor the wordcraft, both silently and aloud -- the difference may surprise you. Definitely a treat!

Afternoon in Bengal
Copyright 2003 Sylvia W. Staub

From a red-dust, rut-pitted country road
a chorus of cartwheels in un-oiled song,
slow-turning as they crawl along
in typical Bengali mode.
Harsh crow calls puncture the listless air,
a fierce glare of heat on nature’s green
assaults the eye, bedevils the slowing brain;
the rain will come, but not for yet awhile.


Another fevered noon has passed, advanced
into that hour when stupor overtakes;
the senses abdicate their tingle, dulled
to ennu-ee — from one to three, time stops.
No creature stirs, save for the ants, at toil
on the hard-baked lateritic soil in
long attenuated lines, a darker red.
The house is still, its khus-khus tatties spill
a cooling fragrance into darkened rooms,
a gentle snore or two disrupts the hush.


It lasts till three, when religiously
the tantalizing pungency of fried samosas
beckons. A servant boy sets down his tray,
calls, “Time for tea!”; a ghost-gray resident
chipkal-ee, aroused by the scent
of fresh-brewed Darjeeling,
starts tracking a fly across a ceiling;
we children, all with just-washed faces,
rush to the table and take our places.

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Readers may email Sylvia at:
sylviastaub@comcast.net


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